No button.  OK the tech guy at the Ferrari dealership laughed at me (GRRRRR) but told me that it's a different kind of gear box.  You LEAVE it in gear (ie. drive or whatever gear you selected) and then just shut the engine off.  It will act like "Park" but pull up the brake too (of course).  I just tried it, yeah it works.  OK Pix coming in about 2 minutes.  UPloading now.

Ha, mine didn't beep it just showed "Neutral" with lines coming out of it on one of the displays.  Oh yeah great job, THAT explains it.  (Grrrr, I swear I'll figure this thing out some day)

Ack, my signature is getting awfully long.  Going to go back to BMW and get my M45 back tommorow (yay!).  Going to park the BMW in the offsite garage until I have to give back my wife's RX400h in a month.  Till then I'm still in M45 mode!!!